You CAN Stop Debt Collectors and Regain Control of Your Finances
I just finished reading a review
copy of a terrific book –- Stop
Debt Collectors –- by Gerri Detweiler, Mary Reed, and John Ventura,
which is published by Credit.com. If you’re behind
on your bills, you need this book, which will be available pretty soon.
In the spirit of full disclosure,
before I say anything else, I need you to know that Gerri Detweiler and I go
way back, as friends, colleagues, and co-authors. She’s one of my favorite
people on the planet. Also, for the last few years, I’ve been happily writing
for Credit.com, as well as for its blog, that is, this site, CreditBloggers.com.
I’d like to think that I’d be
able to separate out these various factors under every circumstance, but who
knows? In this case, it’s not even close, which is fortunate for you …
especially if the bill collectors are already calling you at home and work.
Stop
Debt Collectors Is a Gem
It’s non-judgmental and
empowering, clearly spelling out your alternatives, while offering sound advice
on what you should and shouldn’t do or say – and then making it easy for you to
follow that advice. For example, as the authors put it, “One of the most important pieces of advice
we can give you when you’re dealing with debt collectors is to maintain
detailed written records about your interactions with them.” They give you
a form to make it easy for you to keep track of who said what, when.
Similarly, they say “if a
collector contacts you about a debt that is several years old, do not
acknowledge that you owe it or agree to pay it until you find out whether or
not the debt is outside the statute of limitations.” The book tells you what
the statute of limitations are in every state and the District of Columbia and
how that information can help you prioritize your debts.
Stop
Debt Collectors
includes many concrete tips, for example, about how to avoid foreclosure on your home and how to avoid the “repo man,” if
you’re even just a little behind on car payments.
It also spells out what debt collectors can and can’t do under the law -– and
what you can do if they violate the law.
But what I like best about the
book is that it can help you take charge of your debts from where you are now:
“If you’re like a lot of people,” they explain, when the phone calls start,
“your first reaction may be that you need to immediately come up with the money
the debt collector is asking for. However, paying it may be a bad decision
depending on the importance of the debt relative to your other debts, whether
or not you believe that you really owe the debt, whether or not you believe
that the amount of the debt is accurate, and whether you can afford to pay the
debt, among other things.”
It’s not an ideal world, and
sometimes, there are difficult choices to be made. Gerri Detweiler, Mary
Reed, and John Ventura go through the pros and cons of each option you may
face. I like that they are equally
clear when they feel you have no alternative. For example, if you’ve “fallen
behind on a secured debt (your car or home loan, for example) and you do not
have the money to get caught up on it, contact a
consumer law attorney immediately!” (The authors recommend you surf over to the National Association of Consumer Advocates to
find a lawyer who specializes in this area.)
I hope you don’t and won’t need Stop
Debt Collectors, but if you might –- be honest with yourself -- how about at least
bookmarking this blog? The sooner you face your debts, the sooner you can take
control and create a brighter future!
Nancy Castleman – Co-author of
"Invest in Yourself: Six Secrets to a Rich Life" and founder of Good Advice Press. Nancy has spent
the last 23 years teaching people how to get out of debt, save money, and live
better on less. She writes on all these subjects for CreditBloggers.com.





How to avoid debt? This is a common question most of us ask ourselves. There is no magical tricks or is there any? Well, no suspense; the tips discussed below doesn’t seem like anything magical if you read it just like that, but when you start following it, you will see its impact on your financial stature.
Posted by: Robin Smith | October 06, 2009 at 02:02 AM